Below are the top two concerns that those who are unfamiliar with cremation usually express when deciding if they should utilise this process for their loved ones' remains. They worry that their loved one's ashes might get mixed up with someone else's ashes The big fear that many people have regarding cremations is that their loved one's cremated ashes might get confused with the ashes of another deceased person. Because the idea of some strangers accidentally taking their beloved, deceased friend or family member's ashes is such an upsetting idea, this worry can put people off using a crematorium's services.